Living The Dream

Have you every had a fantasy come true? Or perhaps had a crush on someone for ages and then finally got to be with them? In our final episode of Confessions of a Sound Girl, our main character Ru gets to be the star of her own fantasy once more...

They say that sometimes dreams really do come true, and in this case lucky Ru finds herself in exactly the position she'd been fantasising about earlier in the shoot... When performer Tina appears in the kitchen wearing skimpy underwear showing off her perfect ass, it's impossible for Ru to keep her eyes to herself.

It's obvious that Tina wants to take things further as they begin to kiss, she perches Ru on the kitchen counter and begins to lick her pussy, making her gasp. Moving to a comfortable couch they explore each other's bodies, their chemistry evident as they become more and more turned on, Tina fucking Ru with a vibrating dildo before Ru brings Tina to a incredible climax. An irresistible scene of sublime pleasure for both women.

The concept of actually getting physically involved with someone that you fancy is something I think that we can all identify with. In my experience it goes one of two ways - absolutely brilliant or a bit disappointing depending on how the physical chemistry plays out. Sometimes the fantasy is better to stay as just that. 

Of course, for many people, sexual fantasies play a role in our sex lives but are commonly something that we never act on. According to a survey of 4000 people in 2018 there are 7 main fantasy themes:

Multi partner sex
Power, control or rough sex
Novelty, adventure and variety
Non-monogamy
Taboo and forbidden sex
Passion and romance
Erotic flexibility

What you can notice from all of these themes is that they involve a sense of novelty. Let's be honest, how many people fantasise about slightly dull, going through the motions type sex? Not that many I suspect... 

These themes are also commonly explored in pornography and erotica, and watching content involving your favourite fantasy with your partner can be a good way to introduce it to them, especially if you would like to take the next step of bringing your fantasy into reality.

For those of you in relationships, talking about and exploring your fantasies can be a brilliant way to foster intimacy and keep your sex lives interesting and fulfilling for both of you. If you the idea of sharing your fantasies scares you, you can play the Yes, No, Maybe game with your partner to see where your fantasies already overlap, find out more here.

For the singletons, of which I am one at the moment, fantasies can be a part of your self love practice, and something that I believe should be explored. All too often we find something that works and just stick with that, until we are bored of it. As always, variety is the spice of life and spending time exploring different things may bring you somewhere unexpected that you really enjoy. Being single can be a chance to truly explore yourself and your likes without the fear of judgement from a partner. 

Stay safe. Have fun. Issy x