7 Sensual Foreplay Tips

Much of mainstream porn shows both men and women getting turned on very quickly. In particular, women are usually shown to be ready for penetration with little or no foreplay. I am sure that most people reading this have at least once experienced sex with less than enough foreplay!

In Straight Man Porn, JoyBear explores this theme in the episode Like an Iron, I Need Warming Up, with Zara DuRose and Sensi.

Zara plays Bessie, a woman who, like many women, needs plenty of time and foreplay to get truly warmed up before penetration. After a string of unsatisfactory lovers, she's had enough of men not paying enough attention to her pussy before it's cock time, so she treats herself to a professional. Juan (Sensi) has just two rules - he doesn't kiss on the lips and he doesn't stay overnight, both of which suit Bessie perfectly. Finally her pussy gets the level of attention that she needs, and also deserves. Bessie is fully in control, she is the one who decides when she is finally ready for penetration. This deliciously hot couple enjoy a sensual fuck and Bessie has no problems climaxing as much as she likes now she's totally warmed up...

Sounds amazing, doesn't it! Inspired by this episode, here are 10 foreplay tips, aside from the obvious, to help your next encounter go multi orgasmic...

Start off outside the bedroom.
Especially for those in relationships, starting off somewhere other than the bedroom can provide a feeling of novelty that can take you back to the earlier days of your relationship. We are all prone to getting stuck in repetitive cycles of what works for us, so it's great to mix it up and discover new things together. Try starting in the kitchen or even starting with some naughty text messages throughout the day to build up desire and excitement. Starting off with a joint shower can also be a delicious form of foreplay, as we all know shower sex can be pretty difficult, but kisses and caresses under warm water together? Simple and very effective.

Talk dirty
This can be via messages, or naughty whispers into your partner's ear of what you'd like them to do to you. If the idea of talking dirty makes you feel embarrassed then start simple - just think of something you'd like - your neck kissed gently for example - and go from there. It may sounds silly but you can also practice on your own, get three requests learnt and then when you try it with a partner you will feel a little more at ease with it.

Dance or striptease for your partner
Turn the lights low or use candlelight and step into your sex kitten persona. Perhaps even make a rule of no touching and really tease your partner - the idea and suspense of what is to come will have you both feeling super hot for each other.

Foreplay all day!
Although planning can seem very un-sexy, making a date for some alone time together and then taking the time to build up excitement will have you both feeling aroused. The mind is a powerful sex organ so a few messages or pictures sent throughout the day to build up to your bedroom date will have both of your brains in the mood.

Massage
What can be better than a sensual massage to relax and get you in the mood? Use flattering lighting and scented oils to really make the most of this. You don't need to be a pro at massage, just a sensual stroking of your partner's body will be relaxing as well as arousing. 

Watch porn together
This is especially good if there's things that you'd like to explore with your partner in bed. Watching porn of your fantasy will allow you to gauge your partner's reaction and is a great way to bring up a conversation that may feel awkward.

Act like strangers
Again, this takes you back to the thrill of a new relationship. Get dressed up, 'meet' in a bar and see where the conversation takes you...

I'd love to hear your foreplay tips in the comments...

Stay safe. Have fun. Issy x